Melina Murray

It is lunchtime at the SHRM conference and as I walk around, I am astounded by the number of people eating alone, not talking to anyone. I took a quick tour from outside all the way back to the very top/back to see if it was just some people. Nope. It holds true all the way through. I would say about 70% of those in the hallways, rest areas (sofas/chairs), outside, and in any public space are enjoying (or not) alone time. Not reading, not working, just eating. Those at tables were in groups, talking, enjoying themselves.

Does a table make it easier to talk to strangers? Are people afraid to sit together on the floor? Is there a perception that networking is only on the floor or during sessions? Is everyone already exhausted from the morning? Or is this group generally not very comfortable interacting with strangers? I wonder.